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Fenomenal Girl Maddie Sheng

01 Saturday Jun 2013

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Our fenomenal girls’ series continues with Maddie Sheng from Smithsburg, Maryland. She is 13 years old, loves art, animals, and jiu-jitsu. She is a straight A student and a great role model for teens. Everyone meet Maddie Sheng!

maddiedogHow did you get started in BJJ and how long have you been training?

My dad took me and my younger brother to try out a BJJ class as a summer activity five years ago. We liked it and have been training ever since. We train at Frederick Fight Club,  under Vicente Junior, third degree De La Riva Black Belt. I train 6 days a week.

What is the best part of the training?

The best part of the training is learning crazy new moves, drilling them, and then putting them to use on the mat in sparring. I like to roll with different people, especially if they can help me work on my weaknesses.

You compete a lot. How many tournaments have you done so far and which one is your favorite?

Yes, I compete a lot. I have been competing since I was eight years old, so I’ve lost count of how many tournaments there have been. I usually do gi, no-gi, and girls’ open class so I get a lot of matches. I really liked flying to California to the Kids Pan Ams this year. I took bronze medal in teen 1 yellow belt division. However, my favorite tournaments are Junior Grappling Association events.

image (1)What is your favorite submission?

My favorite submission is the triangle!

Do you have any favorite BJJ ladies that you look up to?

I really look up to Emily Kwok. We try to go to Princeton BJJ any time we are visiting my grandparents in New Jersey, which is about 2-3 times a year.

Do you do any other sports or do you have hobbies?

I love to draw, and I love my pets! I have a dog named Abbey, a pot-bellied pig named Pugsley, and chickens. I also do judo and circuit conditioning training.

What do your friends think of jiu-jitsu? 

They think it’s cool but I don’t think they really understand what I do.maddie

What would you tell other girls who are not sure if they should try BJJ?

The best advice would be to try it! It definitely helps build your confidence. I see a lot more girls in jiu-jitsu now compared to 5 years ago.

How are you doing in school? What do you want to be when you grow up?

I’m in Honors Classes and get straight A’s. After college I want to be either an artist or a veterinarian. I will still be doing jiu-jitsu, or course. 🙂

This is what Maddie’s coach Kendrick D. Stephens had to say:

Maddie is a very attentive and technical student, always eager to learn more. She has become increasingly more aggressive in the last few months, and is definitely a force to be reckoned with. After her next belt promotion, Maddie will be taking on a new responsibility to help guide new students with their BJJ development. Maddie has a bright future in BJJ!

This is what Maddie’s parents had to say:

Maddie is very humble. We have watched Maddie putting her opponent to sleep with the triangle choke but she doesn’t tell anyone that. After tournaments she does not call her friends to brag about how many boys she beat or how many matches she won. Her achievements are hers and she is content to keep it that way. We are very proud of the young lady she has become!

Maddie's art

Maddie’s art

Thanks Maddie!

SoCal Grapplethon 2013

24 Friday May 2013

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SoCal Women’s BJJ is celebrating its 2nd anniversary on June 8th, and invites everyone to the 6 – hour Grapplethon, benefitting the Network for Victim Recovery of DC. Women from all academies are invited to participate in the marathon grappling event and the fundraiser.

Sexual assault is a very personal, traumatic and one of the most underreported crimes. Every two minutes, someone is sexually assaulted in the United States. It has a long-lasting physical, emotional and psychological effect on the victims. Contrary to the popular belief, the rapist isn’t a masked stranger, 2/3 of all the rapes are committed by someone known to the victim. Research also shows that our culture holds prejudices and stigma towards the victims. The victims suffer from the trauma itself, and feel socially blamed and derogated. Each survivor heals and recovers at their own pace and in their own way. 

If you have been sexually assaulted, it is important to remember that you have the right to be given the same credibility as any other crime victim. You have the right to be believed, to be treated with dignity and respect, to seek and receive help. You have the right to heal.

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To show your support to the victims of sexual assault please click here to donate. If you wish to donate products or services to the Grapplethon raffle, please contact Jill Baker directly. Jill Baker is the leader of SoCal Women’s BJJ, a group that organizes women’s jiu-jitsu open mats, and connects women who share the love of the gentle art.

Fenomenal Girl Breezy Schumacher

20 Monday May 2013

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We are kicking off a new interview series featuring great grappling girls who are the future of women’s jiu-jitsu. Our first fenomenal girl is Breezy Schumacher from Seligman, Arizona. She is 10 years old, a yellow belt, has the coolest braids, and loves to compete. Everyone meet Breezy!

Photo: Rob Schumacher

Photo: Rob Schumacher

How did you get started in jiu-jitsu and how long have you been training?

My dad and two older brothers began taking Brazilian jiu-jitsu classes at GD Jiu-Jitsu Prescott, with Master Steve Judson in 2010. My mother, younger brother, and I would just watch them do jiu-jitsu from a small window above the mats.  I thought it looked fun, so I decided that I wanted to try it out.  I’m still enjoying jiu-jitsu 2 1/2 years later and have pretty much been the only girl in an all boys class.

What do you like the most about BJJ?

I really like the rolling part of jiu-jitsu and training for competitions because it is usually harder. I like competitions as well, they are really fun to me.

You compete a lot. How many tournaments have you done so far and which one is your favorite?

I have done 12 tournaments so far, and my favorite BJJ event is the Arizona Jiu-Jitsu State Championship.  I once had to roll 5 matches, all with boys because no girls had registered.  It was tough, but I did very well.  Winning 4 out of the 5 matches. This year I won my division at 2013 Abu Dhabi Pro BJJ World Trials, IBJJF Pan Kids Championship, 8th Arizona International Jiu Jitsu Open, and 5th Arizona Kids Cup.

Photo: Rob Schumacher

Photo: Rob Schumacher

What’s your favorite submission?

I like chokes from side control the most. My favorite submission is the baseball bat choke.

Do you have any favorite BJJ ladies that you look up to or like to learn from?

Yes, I look up to Kristina Barlaan.  I went to check out her INSPIRE – WOMEN ONLY OPEN MAT, and met other great ladies and girls but I like rolling with her, and learned a lot from her. I plan on attending the Petite Inspire, 5-15 year old girls’ jiu-jitsu open mat, on May 25th.

Do you ever get bored with jiu-jitsu?

There is nothing boring about jiu-jitsu.  It is sometimes tough but not boring.  So usually, I just get my rest, drink some “ACAI 100” for a nutritional energy boost, and eat well before my next class.

Do you do any other sports or do you have other hobbies?

I like to ride my longboard at the skate park, boogie board at the beach, sew and make beaded necklaces

What do your friends think about jiu-jitsu?

My best friends are all in jiu-jitsu, so they must really like it.  A few others that are not in BJJ think that it is really cool, and might try it someday.

What would you tell other girls who are not sure if they should try jiu-jitsu?

Jiu-jitsu is awesome and you should try it.  It’s great for your health and it is a lot of fun.  Plus jiu-jitsu makes you stronger, which is good if you have older brothers.  They can become great rolling partners for you.

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This is what Breezy’s coach Steve Judson had to say:

Breezy is an awesome student! I couldn’t ask for better. She listens well, works hard learning new techniques, and trains hard. She helps out with teaching new students, and has patience with them. Breezy is always smiling in class and at competitions, win or lose. She shows great sportsmanship or should it be sportswomanship. She will be a world champion, and maybe even the face of women’s jiu-jitsu. It would be great to be able to put a black belt around her waist one day!

Fun fact that Breezy’s mom shared with us:

When Breezy was six years old, a female artist took a picture of her, and painted her into the BEYOND WORDS mural on a wall of Prescott Public Library, in Arizona.  Most people don’t know that the girl in the mural is actually a painting of Breezy.

Mural Beyond Words at Prescott Public Library- Breezy 2009

Thanks Breezy!

Fenomenal Woman Kristin Mikkelson

14 Tuesday May 2013

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644237_10151127998989364_520031700_nOur fenomenal woman for May is Kristin Mikkelson, a 24-year old blue belt to watch out for at the Worlds this year. She graduated from the University of Cincinnati with a BBA in 2010. After working in the financial sector for a couple of years, she decided to do some soul-searching and focuses on training for now. She talks about training at Brazil-021, competing, and coming back from serious injuries. Everyone meet Kristin Mikkelson!

How did you find BJJ?

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I found BJJ after I moved to Chicago in 2011. I moved here from Cincinnati for a job, analyzing real estate funds.  In Cincinnati I had trained Taekwondo for a little over 9 years, and was looking to explore a different martial art. I had seen some Brazilian jiu-jitsu before and thought it would be fun. I found some places in Chicago and decided to try a class at each of them, but as soon as I visited Brazil-021 and met Hannette Staack and Andre Terencio, that was it – I was in. Training and learning kept getting more interesting and I felt the desire to compete.  Soon it was all I wanted to do! Now I train 5 days a week, some days I stay for two classes, and some days I stay for one.

Do you do any other sports? Were you athletic all your life growing up?

As a little kid I was only allowed to do soccer because it was the cheapest sport and my family was a soccer family. I wasn’t that good at it, nor very excited about it but my mom’s rule was that everyone in the family had to play a sport.

I wanted to try independent sports like gymnastics or karate but was unable to until I turned 12 and convinced my mom to let me do taekwondo. I earned my black belt at 16 and my 2nd degree black belt with the World Taekwondo Federation when I was 19. I haven’t trained it since I started BJJ but would like to start again eventually.

What does your family think of BJJ?

At first my parents were a little wary of BJJ because they knew it was physically demanding, and were worried I was going to get seriously injured or ache for the rest of my life. They were also getting worried about how much I was training because they saw it taking up a lot of my time. However, now they are really supportive since they have seen how passionate I am about it. My siblings were always incredibly supportive and my little brother even started training recently back home.

How often do you compete? What’s your biggest accomplishment so far? Most memorable match?

549669_10151933884775332_106092900_nLast year I did 3 competitions and this year have done 2.  There would be more but my time out due to injury left me unable to compete as much as I would have liked.  My biggest accomplishment so far in competition was winning my division at the 2012 Rio Open.  It was my first IBJJF Gold, but the most important thing I took away was that I finally realized where my mind needed to be if I wanted to win.

My most memorable matches for myself are the ones that I have lost because I always think about what little things I should have done differently. My favorite one however, was the first one I won in Rio with an armbar.

Have you been seriously injured? If yes, how did you overcome the fear of coming back to the mats? Did you want to quit at any point?

In August 2012, 2 weeks after I won in Rio, I broke my clavicle in 3 places.  I had to get a piece removed and the rest plated, and screwed back together. I was preparing for another tournament and got swept with my arms trapped at practice.  It was painful, but more so, I was a little heartbroken because it meant 6 months of absolutely no BJJ right after I had my biggest victory. 

I was very eager to get back on the mats but hesitant to do anything that would jar my arm or shoulder. A couple of times I would fall on it and immediately get stressed and afraid that I might have hurt myself. The only way to get over the fear was to keep training, focus on my goals, and try to ignore the pain and stress.  Coming back was hard because I had to retrain my body and instincts just to feel normal again.

I felt hopeless and embarrassed several times, but I never wanted to quit.  In the few months that I’ve been back I have won two competitions: the Chicago Winter Open and the New York Open. My teammates’ and coaches’ support are really what made those achievements possible.

557125_302418599857475_1447080116_nYou are lucky to have a great female coach, Hannette Staack. What do you like about her and training at the school?

I really am very lucky to be training with Hannette.  She is a superstar women’s jiu-jitsu competitor, an amazing coach, a great person, and a good friend. The best part about Hannette’s coaching is that she knows how to teach each individual.

She knows what I need to do to make my strengths their strongest and my weaknesses better. She always knows what to say and do to keep me motivated and confident.

Each student is different and Hannette has the intuition to see exactly what we  need. When I was injured, she was always there telling me that it was just a bump on the road, and I would be able to successfully compete again.  Before the injury was healed, she would help me review what techniques that I could do and help me with my limitations.  It’s the kind of thing that shows how much she cares about her students and I know she would do that for anyone in that situation. She and Professor Andre also promote a family and team environment where our goal is not only to get better but to see our teammates get better as well.  I can’t say enough how lucky I am to have ended up with them!

What are your plans for this year?

I plan to try and compete at least once a month or every other month this year.  My biggest plan is 2013 IBJJF Worlds which is at the end of May.

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Thank you Kristin!

Love Mom

13 Monday May 2013

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There is nothing like the joy of motherhood, especially when all the children are in bed. – Anonymous

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Happy Mother’s Day!

Amazonian Women’s Jiu-Jitsu

26 Friday Apr 2013

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Amazonian Women’s Jiu-Jitsu is a Florida based organization that Stephanie Dodge started little over a year ago. She organizes free monthly open mats, seminars, and women only camps with well-known world champions.

This is how Stephanie describes an Amazonian woman: A woman who is powerful, beyond limits, confident and beautiful. She is a kindred spirit versed in the art of Brazilian jiu-jitsu. She is a warrior. Stephanie was kind enough to sit down with us, and talk about what’s happening in Florida.

376693_146075142198699_858734545_nTell us a little bit about yourself.

I am a registered nurse at JFK hospital in Florida. I am a wife and a mother of 2 girls, ages 3 and 8. I got started in BJJ through my husband Jason. He was looking for a gym to train MMA and we started training together. At first I was a little apprehensive but quickly realized that jiu-jitsu is a great self-defense for women, and I wanted to learn the counters to the techniques my husband was testing in me. Currently I am a 3 stripe blue belt under Manoel Soares and train at Jaco Hybrid Training Center, home of the Blackzilians, in Delray, Florida.

How did Amazonian Women’s Jiu-Jitsu get started?

I got the idea to start Amazonian Women’s BJJ when I met 2 other girls that trained. Prior to meeting these women, I had been the only woman at my gym and sometimes, or a lot of the time, men didn’t really know how to roll with women. So I asked the 2 other girls to come and train with me once a month so we could help each other to get ready for tournaments.

Around that time I also met Michelle Nicolini, and asked her if we could do a women425211_292708680798223_578767644_n only seminar with her followed by and open mat. She loved the idea and that’s how it started. We had the seminar with Michelle, and at the event I met another female black belt, Sofia Amarante. She invited me to train with her at her gym in Lauderhill, FL. I asked if we could do an open mat and invite women all over Florida to come and train for free. Sofia liked the idea and we had our 1st Amazonian Women’s Open Mat in March of 2012. It was a great success. Since then we had an open mat almost every month at a different gym. The 13th one was just a few weeks ago.

Do you run Amazonian Women’s Jiu-Jitsu alone or do you have any help?

I do all the planning for each event on my own. I do depend on the women who attend to ask their professors if the next event could be at their gym. Once I have a location, I plan time, set up the event page and start promoting. Fenom Kimonos has always helped with the event flyers and we share them all over Facebook, bringing in new women at each event. I honestly couldn’t have a successful event every month if the women didn’t do their part in spreading the word among their friends and team.

What has been the biggest challenge in organizing the open mats? Have you been able to participate in every event?

I think the biggest challenge is not to get stressed out, and taking the time to remember why I started this. Sometimes I worry about if enough girls will show up, if they like the technique, if they like the training, etc. But when I sit back and watch, I realize that even if there are 10 girls instead of 30, we still have a great time rolling, talking, and eating afterwards. As long as we learn from each other and have an open mind, it’s a success.

I have participated in every event except for one, when I hurt my shoulder. I was there on the mat with the girls, but could not physically do the technique and roll. It was difficult to sit and watch, but I got to coach instead, helping girls get ready for various tournaments.

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Amazonian Women’s Jiu-Jitsu celebrated its 1st anniversary recently. What events did you have in 2012 and which one was the most memorable so far?

The first open mat had a huge turnout. Then we had a training camp with Michelle Nicolini and Sofia Amarante, which was also a success with women participating from all over the east coast. Later in 2012, we had Leticia Ribeiro seminar which was a lot of fun. She is one person I look up to. Meeting her and learning a little bit of her jiu-jitsu was amazing.

One of the most memorable events was the open mat at Roberto “Cyborg” Abreu’s FightSports Miami. We had a lot of participants and he said some very important words which I like to go back to from time to time. He said that even though we are from different academies, and fight each other at tournaments, doesn’t mean we cannot be friends. Some of my best friends are girls I met on the mat. When we fight, we fight, but as soon as the fight is over, we walk off the mat hugging and thanking each other for a good roll. This is important for all the Amazonian women to remember.

puertoricoWhat are the plans for the group for this year?

This year started off with some great open mats and our 1 year anniversary. We are planning to have an open mat at Carlson Gracie Puerto Rico in June, then we will be in the Bahamas in July for a women’s self-defense seminar, where I will be teaching some techniques. This is part of the 4-day BOMAC martial arts competition. I am hoping to have either a camp or a seminar with Michelle Nicolini and Sofia Amarante once again, and a camp with Leticia Ribeiro as well. These women are my biggest inspirations in jiu-jitsu.

Do you travel to any other women’s camps or open mats? If not, is there an event you would like to attend?

There are great groups in Boston, New York City, Texas, California, Arizona, Michigan, Seattle, and Canada. Couple of brand new ones are starting up in Maryland, Mississippi, North Carolina, and Virginia. I would love to go visit all of them at some point. It’s awesome to see how we are growing.

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Is there anything else you would like to add?

A huge thank you to all the black belts that have welcomed us to their schools and shared some of their knowledge. I would also like to thank Triin Seppel with Fenom Kimonos for always helping out with the beautiful flyers, sponsoring us, and promoting the events each month.

Lastly, I want to thank all the women who have supported Amazonian Women’s BJJ. Whether you have been to one open mat or to all of them, I appreciate you taking time out of your schedule to train with us, and help support me, and my dream of bringing BJJ to more women everywhere. Thank you, train hard and I’ll see you on the mat!

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Thank you, Stephanie!

Fenomenal Woman Linford Murao

17 Wednesday Apr 2013

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Our Fenomenal Woman for April is Linford Murao. She represents jiu-jitsu ladies in their 50s and proves that anyone can do it. It’s not how old you are, but how you are old. Everyone meet Linford Murao!

First of all, you have a very unique name. What’s the story behind it? 557443_480796295279015_1683197408_n

My dad’s name is Stanford, so he named my three brothers Daneford, Bradford and Hartford. When they had me, they did not know what to call me. One day my mom was cleaning out the lint trap for the dryer and had the idea, Lintford! My dad said that it did not sound girly enough, and suggested Linford. And that is how I got my name!

Tell us a little bit about yourself.

I am 50 years old, and live in Waipahu, Hawaii. I am a wife of 28 years, and a mother of three awesome young men. I have a  26-year-old who is getting his PhD in Clinical Psychology, a 22-year-old who is in the Air Force and is completing his BA in Business & Marketing, and a 21-year-old who will be entering medical school next year to become a neurosurgeon.

I taught kindergarten for 15 years at a Catholic Elementary School and now I take care of a sweetie pie 97-year-old woman at a convent for nuns.

63317_510428685649109_737620479_nWhere do you train?

I currently train at the Alliance Academy of Hawaii. My professor is Rex Barum who is an awesome teacher who treats all his students as equals, no matter male or female. I first started in the women’s jiu-jitsu class with 5 other women who had been training for a year or so before me, and were much lighter than me. After class I didn’t really feel comfortable and felt out of place. That’s when I decided to try the mens’ class over thirty. The only problem: everyone was 30 and under. I thought to myself, I can do this! I got my courage up and joined the class.

On the first day, my professor introduced me to the class, and everyone looked at me with a smirk. At that moment I said to myself, what in the world are you thinking, fighting with not only men, but men half your age! Being 50 and female, one would think that training with a bunch of guys would either intimidate me or they would have an attitude having to train with me, but not these guys. They are the best bunch of braddahs (local name for brothers) anyone could ask for. Now 18 months later, I’m proud to say that I am a first degree blue belt. I have the best teammates who treat me with such awesome respect and never patronize me because I’m an old lady. They really kick my butt and I love it!

How did you get started in BJJ and how often do you train?

I started jiu-jitsu after watching UFC and MMA fights. I fell so in love with the art that I started watching it on YouTube. I watched and learned lots of moves and wondered if at my age could do this. I looked around for a school in my area and found one 2 blocks from my house. So I went down to the academy, walked in, and watched for a bit before professor Rex noticed me. He asked me if I wanted to come to a free class to see if I liked it. I was so excited and agreed. After the first class I was hooked!

I try to train at least three times a week, but with my crazy life I mostly get a good twice a week training. I would love to compete but my hubby is afraid that at my age I’ll get seriously hurt. I haven’t given up on the idea that one day I’ll be there on the mat to represent all the women 50 and over!

Do you do any other sports?

Yes, I play competitive racquetball twice a week, and again my partners are men. I guess being a woman and competing against men gives me the drive to win and better myself. I also hike every Thursday with a group that started with just me and 2 others. Now it is a group of 128 members and growing. We hike all over Hawaii’s beautiful lush islands, some hikes are so extreme that I really don’t know how I do it!

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What does your family think about your hobby?

Nuts! My boys just think it’s awesome that I train. They tell all their friends how proud they are of me. My husband on the other hand is so afraid that I’ll get seriously hurt and won’t be able to take care of the family. I have had an ACL replacement a few years back and about 5 months ago I tore my MCL during a racquetball tournament. I know the surgery will take me out of training for 6 months and I don’t want to stop, so I wear a knee brace and just suck it up and ice it on the bad days.

What’s your biggest frustration with BJJ and what do you like the most about it?

My biggest frustration is my knee injury. It limits me to trying only certain moves  and getting a submission is not always possible. Also trying to remember the lessons that were taught the week before is frustrating, it keeps me up some nights replaying over and over in my head.

308742_10200868322499393_2133736019_nWhat I like about jiu-jitsu is the competitiveness, the workout, the sense of power it gives me, but mostly my teammates. They are so good to me, and I am blessed to be able to train with such awesome guys and girls.

If money were not an object, which camp or seminar would you want to attend?

I would love to go to an Inspire women’s open mat, hosted by Kristina Barlaan. I so admire her drive as a fighter of women’s jiu-jitsu and yet she is so humble. Also, I would love to go to a camp hosted by Hannette Staack or Leticia Ribeiro, they are my superheros of the 21st century, representing all the women and girls in the world of jiu-jitsu.

Is life in Hawaii really as fabulous and easy-going as we all think it is?

Well, life in Hawaii is more fabulous than you can imagine. We have lush green mountains to hike in, with the most spectacular waterfalls to swim in. We have beautiful beaches with crystal clear water and white glistening sand. We have the most breathtaking million dollar homes with beaches as their backyards. We have thousands of restaurants that serve food from anywhere on this planet.

Really, it is a paradise and I am truly lucky to live here, but with every paradise, there comes a price tag. The cost of living here is way too expensive, homes, gas, food, and clothing are 3 times higher than on the mainland. The jobs are limited and the wages are very low. So yes, it’s true, Hawaii is wonderful if you have the money. Aloha!

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 Thanks Linford!

Hug Department: Always Open

11 Thursday Apr 2013

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Sometimes it’s better to put love into hugs than to put it into words. – Anonymous

Hugging is a great form of non-verbal communication and emotional satisfaction. It expresses love, sympathy, gratitude, and forgiveness. A hug can be given as an indication of support, comfort, and consolation, particularly when words are insufficient.

Here is a collection of some of our favorite jiu-jitsu hugs! We hope you enjoy them.

Father’s hug

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Little big hug

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Victory hug

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Sisters’ hug

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Candid camera hug

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Couple in love hug

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Smash and hug
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Girls in gis hug

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Horizontal hug

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Kiss and a hug

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Family hug

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Lots of hugs

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Manly hug

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Fenomenal Woman Liz Sussan

12 Tuesday Mar 2013

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262892_4655327173523_238137322_nOur fenomenal woman this month is Liz Sussan. She is a BJJ purple belt, vinyasa yoga instructor, manages Richmond BJJ Academy and also teaches jiu-jitsu at the academy. A few weeks ago she started a fundraising project called UNITED  that benefits RAINN, and brings awareness to  sexual assault. Everyone meet Liz Sussan!

How did you get into jiu-jitsu?

When I met my long-time boyfriend Eric Burdo in 2006, he was a brown belt and running his school, Richmond BJJ Academy, a BJJ Revolution Team school in Richmond, VA. Within 3 weeks of us starting to date, I attended a tournament where he was part of a 4-man super fight division. When I saw it, I really thought it was one of the coolest things to do as a sport, and I loved the idea that at a high level, these guys were constantly countering each other and trying to beat each other.

I had never played an individual sport, only team sports, and learning something that really used my whole body with detailed, precise movement intrigued me. The fact that BJJ also had serious self-defense applications in addition to being a wicked cool sport seemed radical for me as a person. I had no clue how much Eric or jiu-jitsu would change my life. At first I was taking classes 3-4 times per week, and within 3 months I had been sucked in, and have been training 6-7 days per week for 6 years.

My first experience with jiu-jitsu was actually not that positive. Eric showed me a mata-leao, but it was just the two of us, so he had to lightly choke me to show it to me. I hated it, the feeling of being choked and especially not knowing how to defend or what to do, and started thinking, “Why would people spend so much time rolling around on mats trying to choke each other?” Honestly, it’s funny to think back to now, because chokes are my favorite submissions and I think technically they are often the best choice in self-defense and sport jiu-jitsu.

How did the Midatlantic Grappling Girls start? Do you have a lot of women training at your school? 

I teach a women’s BJJ class at my school twice a month and anywhere between 3-8 women come to the class. It’s not a huge program yet, but it’s growing. The MAGG started in January 2013 because of a perceived need for regular women’s training opportunities. Women’s open mats have been happening on the east coast for years, but not with regular frequency, and I thought why not pick a name and create a regular event to encourage women to train together. Through MAGG I’ve met so many new jiu-jitsu women and honestly had my mind blown by the growth of women’s BJJ. We’re trying to hold one women’s event every month and we’ve been lucky to pick up some sponsors like Amazing Grass, Fenom Kimonos, Cageside MMA, and Gi Soap!

Do you compete regularly? What is your most memorable tournament or match? Favorite submission?

I try to compete as regularly as I can. Over the years I’ve had my share of injuries and some of them have kept me from competing for long periods of time. A barrier I’ve learned to overcome is that local competition at my size and skill level is hard to find, so I had to travel more to compete. Through traveling I’ve really grown to love competing. I thrive in the preparation, and like the challenge of hard training and conditioning leading up to competition. I believe that most of the growth in my jiu-jitsu has occurred in the 4-8 week prep time before a tournament. It creates focus that is often lost when I don’t have a goal or a tournament looming.

My favorite tournament was NY Open where I competed as a blue belt. That was a 208192_1892999357054_776521_ntransformational moment for me personally, to travel to a big tournament, do well, and have such a positive experience. That tournament sticks out to me the most because my boyfriend Eric was there to coach me and support me, and it’s the time that I decided that I really liked competing.

My favorite submissions are gi chokes. I like to play around with grips and angles, and really find them from every position. I believe the choke is superior positionally, and from a self-defense perspective, it has the ability to end a confrontation with a minimal physical damage to the other person and make it so that they can no longer attack you.

Do you go to women’s training camps or other open mats? Which one has stood out the most and why?

I’ve attend many women’s open mats, seminars, and camps over the years. I try to attend nearly every one that I can. My very first women’s seminar was Kyra Gracie seminar in 2007, and at the time it seemed like the coolest thing ever. I was a 6 month white belt and knew that what I was attending was special, and maybe a once in a lifetime chance.

395088_4426718738455_380613390_nI attended the very first Women’s Grappling Camp hosted by Felicia Oh, Valerie Worthington, Emily Kwok, and Alaina Hardie in Los Angeles. That was an amazing experience. I loved being surrounded by women who were as passionate about jiu-jitsu as I was. Those kind of events can be really inspirational and afterward I always return to my training with an enthusiasm and fire to train hard.

The women’s training that has stuck out the most for me was a Hannette Staack seminar at my school. We often host Hannette Staack at our school for seminars, and at her second seminar, toward the end, she pulled me to the middle of the room and told me it was my purple belt test and I needed to show everyone EVERY technique that she had taught us in that 2-3 hour seminar. My first thought “Wait, PURPLE BELT?!” and my nerves shot up, and then Hannette said she was going to be my uke for the demo! Somehow I pulled it off like a champ, going through a review of the entire seminar from position to position, and then Hannette told me she was just kidding about the purple belt and thanked me. That was a crazy mix of emotions to go through in 10 minutes.

Who is your role model in jiu-jitsu and in life general?

My instructor and boyfriend Eric Burdo is a huge inspiration to me in life and BJJ. Eric  166574_4748565464422_539055184_nhas life experience that amazes me and has created so much depth to him as a person. He works to bring that to the mats and his students every day.

Julio Fernandez, head of BJJ Revolution Team, is also an inspiration to me. He is a legend in our sport and is a 6th degree Black Belt under Carlson Gracie. Julio has a way about him that makes everyone feel special and he spreads an infectious love for BJJ. I love to roll with him because he flows and moves like a cat yet still has constant pressure.

Hannette Staack’s work ethic and dedication to BJJ is an inspiration to me. I love her focus and her desire to help students learn. I also love her style of teaching where she puts you in positions of pressure and sweat to drill the techniques over and over.

Did you ever want to quit jiu-jitsu because of an injury, frustration or lack of motivation? How do you keep going?

Injuries have been the most frustrating part of jiu-jitsu for me. Because I run our school and am surrounded by BJJ constantly, when I am injured, my injury is compounded by the fact that I can’t escape being at the school and being reminded that I can’t train. To get through this, I go out onto the mats for class, sometimes dressed out, sometimes not, and I actively participate in learning even though I can’t drill the moves.

There have been two instances where I came back to the mats better than before my injury simply because observing class and other people drilling helped me to see what I was missing in the movements or understand something from a different perspective. I think this is one of the biggest lessons I can convey to people reading.

I think jiu-jitsu enthusiasm can lead to burnout and I try to check in with myself every week on this. When you’re competing a lot, or even just serious about BJJ, it’s easy to overdo it. First, I definitely listen to my body. If I’m too tired or banged up, I take a day off. That’s about injury prevention. Second, if I get sucked into some kind of negative thought loop, I ask myself if I have balance in my life. Is it maybe time to take a class off and have lunch with a friend, hit up a yoga class instead, or maybe even fly somewhere warm for a few days? Third, I think longevity in BJJ is helped when you’re surrounded by friends on the mats. So if my regular training partners are slacking off, I work to get them back into class, or I travel to train with friends to make training more fun.

Tell us about your most recent project called UNITED.

Most jiu-jitsu practitioners have had serious reactions to the abuse and assaults being reported within our community. It has created a lot of discussion around rape and what kind of culture we want to create in our grappling community and greater world. People want a way to speak out and also a way to come together. I felt like we needed a symbol to show that we feel outraged and thoughtful about what has transpired.

I worked with my friends to design a gi patch that would allow BJJ community to express being united against rape and abuse. The patches say UNITED with a teal ribbon and the ribbon has been turned into a BJJ belt. It’s been a collective effort between NHB Gear, Da Firma Kimonos and IngenuiTek who generously have donated their services making it possible to donate 80-90% of the sales proceeds to RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network).

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I’ve gotten sincere and amazing feedback from people. In just 2 weeks we’ve raised over $1,000.00 for RAINN. April is sexual assault awareness month and that adds to the importance of these patches. The patches sell for $ 10-12 each and can be ordered by emailing to Liz@RichmondBJJ.com.

Is there anything else interesting you want our readers to know about you?

I helped to found the local roller derby league here in Richmond, VA. My roller derby name is Nikki Stitch, a play on the Motley Crue bassist Nikki Sixx’s name. I love music and the name reflects that. I stopped playing roller derby after I fell in love with BJJ, but I’m still a fan! And I am vegan, oh wait, everyone already knows that about me! 🙂

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Pacific Northwest Grapplin’ Gals

05 Tuesday Mar 2013

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Grapplin’ Gals is a Brazilian jiu-jitsu training group for ladies in Seattle, WA, area. It was started in 2011 and last month Grapplin’ Gals organized their very first 3-day women’s training camp. The founder, Sonia Sillan, talks about the camp and women’s jiu-jitsu in the Pacific Northwest.

Sonia Sillan

Sonia Sillan

Tell us a little bit about yourself.

I had been on track to go the graduate school after I graduated from the University of Washington, but somehow in my senior year I decided I wanted to try a grappling art. I had practiced Tae Kwon Do for the past 12 years, and I felt I needed to become a complete martial artist. I discovered Brazilian jiu-jitsu and pursued my newfound addiction; now I’ve been training for a little over three years and I’m a 4 stripe blue belt under David Stegman at West Seattle Fight & Fitness, a proud Ribeiro Jiu Jitsu Association affiliate.

I work as an Audiometric Technician by day (meaning I drive around in a 30-ft box truck doing hearing testing at different industrial sites), but that isn’t everything – I am a co-owner of a BJJ lifestyle brand called Roll.Adapt.Win, and West Seattle Fight and Fitness, where I run the Tae Kwon Do program.

When and how did the PNW Grapplin’ Gal group start?

Grapplin’ Gals would not have started if it weren’t for the man in my life, Jei. He convinced me to compete at my first tournament as a blue belt, and I got killed by two awesome ladies. Both of them are good friends of mine now. This experience could have been a negative one, but in all reality it helped me to realize that women need to train with women in order to reach their full potential. I can train with guys all day, but they never go 100% with me, and if they did, it would probably result in an injury.

I wanted to train with other women and although I knew quite a few, I didn’t have the opportunity due to the differing schools. I started Grapplin’ Gals in October 2011 as an unaffiliated women’s only open mat. Even though we didn’t meet consistently, it was great to train and bond with other women whenever we did meet up.

How often do you meet and how many ladies participate at the open mats?

It varies from month-to-month. Now that it has become more established, we are hoping to meet once a month for some quality training. At the first PNW female camp we had 30 participants which is a huge turnout for our area!

How did the first PNW female camp come about? 

526762_487797587948794_1512519962_nI was inspired by Leticia Ribeiro camp that I attended in 2011 and finally had the means to organize one. We have local black belt women with hidden talents, and it was time to showcase them.

I started planning it around Thanksgiving last year and by Christmas we had the instructors on board and the logistics worked out. My main focus for the camp was to promote women’s jiu-jitsu in the Pacific Northwest, with a secondary motive of uniting the women in the area. It was fascinating to see women from Washington, Oregon, Canada and as far as Massachuchets come together to just train, no drama or politics involved.

I also wanted to do something to support local charities. We donated a portion of the proceeds to New Beginnings, a non-profit organization that advocates ending domestic violence, and several women donated gis to Give the Gift of a Gi project run by Carly Stowell foundation.

The instructors were relatively unknown female black belts (except for Fabiana Borges). Who are they and how did you find them?

Fabiana Borges and Miriam Cardoso

Fabiana Borges and Miriam Cardoso

I knew both Professors Fabiana Borges and Miriam Cardoso when they trained at Gracie Barra when I first started. I met Professor Andrea Emmel through Professor Miriam. Professor Miriam now has her own school, Elite Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu of Redmond, and although she is a mother, she has her eye on the gold at the Worlds. What many people don’t know about her is that she is a multiple time world champion with a drive to succeed – she doesn’t take no for an answer.

Also, we were pleasantly surprised with the presence of Professor Michelle Wagner, a local black belt from Gracie Barra in Ballard and one of the early pioneers of jiu-jitsu in Washington state.

Leah Taylor and Amanda Lowen

Leah Taylor and Amanda Lowen

Amanda Loewen and Leah Taylor, two purple belts from Straight Blast Gym in Portland, may seem like a random choice of instructors, but it’s due to the fact that I formed friendships with them through the competition scene. They are both beasts on the mat and two of the most technical women, black belts aside, I have seen in the area.

Amanda is actually one of the women I was talking to regarding the formation of Grapplin’ Gals. She constantly strives to improve herself, and accepts any challenge she is faced with, such as competing and placing in the men’s division. Leah is inspiring because not only did she take gold at the Worlds in 2012, she is also a graduate student keeping up with her studies. All of the instructors involved are inspiring role models and leaders for women’s BJJ in the area, and it was an honor to have learned something from each of them at the PNW training camp.

Do you follow any other women’s open mats, and have you gone to camps in other parts of the US?

I do follow other open mats and actually wish I could travel more often to train. I attended Leticia Ribeiro camp in 2011 as already mentioned. There is a great group of ladies in Vancouver, B.C. running open mats pretty often. I am hoping to get a group of girls together to drive up with me within the next month or so.

I’d also like to give a shout out to United Grappling Federation and one of its founds, Lenna Uhlinger. Last year she organized the first Women’s International Grappling Championship in San Diego. I had the honor of attending it both as a participant and a sponsor with Roll.Adapt.Win and can definitely say it was one of the best experiences I have had in BJJ, besides this training camp of course :). There were lots of talented ladies and it was great to compete against women I had never met before.

What are the plans for Grappling Gals for this year?

Plans are still in the air, so it’s a secret for now but I can guarantee that we will have several events in 2013, and will continue to support New Beginnings with every one.

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